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sons, as we may gather from the section referring to such following upon that in
Deuteronomy 21:11. In regard to marriages for wealth, we are to learn a lesson from the
sons of Eli, who sought to enrich themselves in such manner, but of whose posterity it
was said (1 Sam 2:36) that they should "crouch for a piece of silver and a morsel of
bread." Of marriages for the sake of connection, honour, and influence, King Jehoram
offered a warning, who became King Ahab's son-in-law, because that monarch had
seventy sons, whereas upon his death his widow Athaliah "arose and destroyed all the
seed royal" (2 Kings 11:1). But far otherwise is it in case of marriage "in the name of
heaven." The issue of such will be children who "preserve Israel." In fact, the Rabbinical
references to marrying "in the name of heaven," or "for the name of God," --in God and
for God--are so frequent and so emphatic, that the expressions used by St. Paul must
have come familiarly to him. Again, much that is said in 1 Corinthians 7 about the
married estate, finds striking parallels in Talmudical writings. One may here be
mentioned, as explaining the expression (v 14): "Else were your children unclean; but
now are they holy." Precisely the same distinction was made by the Rabbis in regard to
proselytes, whose children, if begotten before their conversion to Judaism, were said to
be "unclean"; if after that event to have been born "in holiness," only that, among the
Jews, both parents required to profess Judaism, while St. Paul argues in the contrary
direction, and concerning a far different holines s than that which could be obtained
through any mere outward ceremony.
Some further details, gathered almost at random, will give glimpses of Jewish home life
and of current views. It was by a not uncommon, though irreverent, mode of witticism,
that two forms of the same verb, sounding almost alike, were made to express opposite
experiences of marriage. It was common to ask a newly -married husband: "Maza or
Moze?"--"findeth" or "found"; the first expression occurring in Proverbs 18:22, the
second in Eccles iastes 7:26. A different sentiment is the following from the Talmud (Yeb.
62 b; Sanh. 76 b), the similarity of which to Ephesians 5:28 will be immediately
recognised: "He that loveth his wife as his own body, honoureth her more than his own
body, brings up his children in the right way, and leads them in it to full age--of him the
Scripture saith: 'Thou shalt know that thy tabernacle shall be in peace' (Job 5:24)." Of all
qualities those most desired in woman were meekness, modesty, and shamefacedness.
Indeed, brawling, gossip in the streets, and immodest behaviour in public were sufficient
grounds for divorce. Of course, Jewish women would never have attempted "teaching"
in the synagogue, where they occupied a place separate from the men--for Rabbinical
study, however valued for the male sex, was disapproved of in the case of women. Yet
this direction of St. Paul (1 Tim 2:12): "I suffer not a woman to usurp authority over the
man" findeth some kind of parallel in the Rabbinical saying: "Whoever allows himself to
be ruled by his wife, shall call out, and no one will make answer to him."
It is on similar grounds that the Rabbis argue, that man must seek after woman, and not
a woman after a man; only the reason which they assign for it sounds strange. Man,
they say, was formed from the ground--woman from man's rib; hence, in trying to find a
wife man only looks after what he had lost! This formation of man from soft clay, and of
woman from a hard bone, also illustrated why man was so much more easily reconcilable
than woman. Similarly, it was observed, that God had not formed woman out of the head,
lest she should become proud; nor out of the eye, lest she should lust; nor out of the
ear, lest she should be curious; nor out of the mouth, lest she should be talkative; nor
out of the heart, lest she should be jealous; nor out of the hand, lest she should be
covetous; nor out of the foot, lest she be a busybody; but out of the rib, which was
always covered. Modesty was, therefore, a prime quality. It was no doubt chiefly in
jealous regard for this, that women were interdicted engaging in Rabbinical studies; and
a story is related to show how even the wisest of women, Beruria, was thereby brought
to the brink of extreme danger. It is not so easy to explain why women were dispensed
from all positive obligations (commands, but not prohibitions) that were not general in
their bearing (Kidd. 1. 7,8), but fixed to certain periods of time (such as wearing the
phylacteries, etc.), and from that of certain prayers, unless it be that woman was
considered not her own mistress but subject to others, or else that husband and wife
were regarded as one, so that his merits and prayers applied to her as well. Indeed, this